Losing someone you love deeply is not something that goes away. For every person who's ever laid their hand on my shoulder and said 'there there dear, it'll pass', I have this to say. It doesn't pass, it doesn't go away, and it sure doesn't get any better. You can justify to me that the person can no longer suffer, or that they're in a better place all you want, but to that I say, Fuck you. What if they weren't suffering in the first place? Then it's "just a shame, but at least they passed quickly", well to you I say, take your little pamphlet of 'things to say to a mourning person' and shove it directly up your ass. You can tell me you're sorry, that you don't know what to say, at least that's some fucking honesty. Truth be known, no one knows if they're in a btter place, no one knows if they suffered and no one will know until it becomes their turn, so Fuck off. I've felt losses in my life that compare to nothing I can even begin to imagine, and as we all know, there's more to come. The way I see it, is that there has to be something beyond this, beyond this life, or this whole deal becomes quite the cruel joke. -and, Arm, wherever you are, I love you beyond words and I miss you beyond tears. Sometimes the world is a very empty place without you in it.
